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Ready for Promotion? 5 Questions to Ask | The Conversation Lab
Welcome back to The Conversation Lab. Promotion decisions are often driven by urgency—"We need someone in this role now, and this person is our best option." But that's not readiness. That's convenience. Readiness isn't about filling a gap. It's about whether the person has the competency, mindset, and cultural fit to step into the role and succeed—not just survive. We're not trying to stop promotions. We want to make sure the promotion is successful. So let's ask the hard qu

Deane Lam
2 hours ago3 min read


What Does "Help" Actually Mean? | The Conversation Lab
"Departments are too rigidly defined. The 'helping hand' culture is gone." This came up in a recent Conversation Lab session. A leader was frustrated that other teams simply waited for his team's output instead of stepping in to help when things got busy. He was expecting a helping hand culture—but instead, he saw people staying in their lanes. But here's the real question: What does "help" actually mean? The Problem with "Help" "Help" is a dangerous word in organizations. It

Deane Lam
Aug 73 min read


Psychological Safety is a Manager's Job | The Conversation Lab
A clear theme emerged in our recent manager workshop: before you can manage performance, you must manage the emotional field of your team. Goals, collaboration, and results are built on this foundation. Trust isn't a feeling; it's the practical outcome of how you handle emotions. Here’s how to build it. Your Primary Task: Be the Emotional Buffer The Action: Don't just react to negativity or stress—absorb and process it. When challenges arise, your first job is to project calm

Deane Lam
Jan 212 min read


Coaching Without the “Fix-It” Mentality | The Conversation Lab
Welcome to The Conversation Lab! This is where we capture the best of our collective workshop dialogues — turning talk into practical steps, simple tips, and usable ideas for everyday leadership. No jargon, just clear takeaways you can try right away. In our recent leadership workshop session with supervisors, we tackled one of the most common coaching pitfalls: entering conversations assuming something is WRONG. Sounds familiar? When we coach from a place of judgment, we shu

Deane Lam
Dec 19, 20252 min read
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